The term ego has always been said to be a bad thing.
He’d hate to admit it but men can feel self-doubt, insecure and even question how their partner’s feel about them.
We know it can be very difficult for a man to outright say that he needs some reassurance and that’s why he needs you to let him know he’s the man from time to time.
No this doesn’t solve all problems and i’m not saying you need to compliment him 24/7 and of course you will need him to let you know you’re the sh*t too but when you feel like you’re not wanted there can start too be resentment. People will often start saying remember when you use to tell me so and so. Keep the love there and make him feel invincible and in turn he should do the same.
Here are three proven ways to make him feel like the man.
Shawn Carter aka Jay-Z said it best,
“Sometimes you need your ego gotta remind these fools”.
Imagine coming home from a job that doesn’t pay well, living in a poor community, police harassing you ,drama all around. If he is to make it out of that environment he will need that ego aka that bop in his step and that unwavering confidence to remind him of what he could be in the future. Personally my wife does a excellent job at stroking my ego making me feel like the man. So therefore I’m not looking for that validation in the streets from another person.
- Compliment him- “Baby you weren’t lying when you said you’d been hitting the gym”.”I feel safe around you” ” You take really good care of us” “You satisfy me in bed”
- Respect him– Respect his opinion, respect his ability to lead, respect his need to be alone.
- Unsolicited sex- Nothing strokes a mans ego more than sex he doesn’t have to fight to have. Once sex becomes too predictable, it becomes boring. Try role playing, some new toys maybe. Whatever you do make sure its outside of your normal routine.
If a man is out fighting the world he doesn’t want to come home and feel like he is fighting you too. Be his peace and he should be yours.